@miss.hautemess

Freebie Friday is back and we’re choosing 2 winners this time! I’m partnering with my favorite Bay Area body sculptor, @San Francisco Body Contouring, to gift two winners discounted body sculpting sessions. I’ve been seeing Beatriz for almost three years now, and increased my sessions from once a week to twice a week to prepare for the wedding and it was such a game changer. I’ve never looked so snatched and toned in my life and my wedding dress ended up being too big on me 🫣 She offers: endosphere, wood therapy, body wrapping, ice sculpting, and sauna sweat sessions but she’ll create a program that works for your body type, goals, and even your dress silhouette so you look and feel your best on the big day 🫶 Winner 1: One free wood therapy session + $200 off any session package + beauty goodies Winner 2: 1 Free Bridal Session & $300 off 10+ session package + beauty goodies How to enter the giveaway: 1. Must be following @miss.hautemess and @thesilhouettesculptor on IG and TikTok 2. ‘Like’ this post and my last 10 posts 3. Tag a friend! 4. Join my new IG channel: Haute Off The Press Bonus entry: Share this post on your story Giveaway closes at 11:59 pm PST on Thursday, October 22, 2026. Must live in the Bay Area (to use sessions with @thesilhouettesculptor) 2 winners will be randomly selected and notified via DM on Friday, October 23, 2026. #bodysculpting #sanfrancisco #lymphaticdrainage #bayareabride #sanfranciscobride

My body sculpting worked a little too well, because by the time of our wedding, my dress was too big on me and I had a lot of inches off of my waist and hips. I've been seeing the Silhouette Sculptor every week for almost three years now, but started seeing her twice a week in preparation for the wedding. She offers a variety of different services, and she'll work with you to create a program of sessions that are catered to your body type as well as your dress silhouette. She has transformed my body so much over the years, and I'm so grateful. And I have never felt more comfortable and confident in my body, so this is my way of paying it forward. Two lucky winners will not only receive the usual beauty goodies, but also discounted sessions with the Silhouette Sculptor. So make sure to read all of the giveaway details

Is it too late to add wooden ducks to our wedding registry? 🦆 Featured in RM’s exhibition at the @sfmoma, these wooden ducks used to be gifted to married couples in Korea to wish them a great future and life. They’re in the Friendscape room: a place where friends and landscapes meet. A room that is strange, cute, and hard to resist. #rmxsfmoma #bts #rm #kimnamjoon #koreanart

Uh, the ducks. This is from, like, 19, 18th century. They're old ducks made of wood. They were mostly made for the married couples wishing them great future in life. They look all different, like humans. And when I always see them, I feel really, um. Home.

A little peek inside 김남준/RM’s world at the @sfmoma exploring his personal art collection feels even more intimate when you hear him share what draws him to the art. Bring your headphones for the audio tour—it adds so much to the experience. 🎧 📍 RM x SFMOMA: Between You and Me 🗓️ October 3, 2026–February 7, 2027 Want to come back? The $75 Encore Pass includes unlimited exhibition visits throughout its run, same-day access to the museum’s galleries, an exclusive gift, and 10% off at the exhibition pop-up store. Or get a SFMOMA membership 😉 #rmxsfmoma #bts #btsarmy #kimnamjoon #rm

Come with me to Kim Nam-Joon’s debut art exhibition, Between You and me at the SFMOMA. The exhibition brings together nearly 200 works by Korean and international artists from the collection of Kim Nam-Joon and SFMOMA It even includes some artwork from his private collection that have never been publicly exhibited in the US And as a fellow Korean art lover, I'm so excited for others to experience so much Korean art for the first time. Don't forget to bring your headphones for his audio tour. Hearing him explain his creative process so genuinely and authentically felt like getting a little peek into his mind. And as someone that has always wanted to be an art curator too, I too would include a Rothko painting in my debut art exhibition. The exhibition is on view until February 2027, and don't forget to pick up some merch on your way out!

This is your “sign” 😉 to check out RM’s debut art exhibition at the @sfmoma in San Francisco! 🇰🇷🫰 #rmxsfmoma #sfmoma #bts #rm #sanfrancisco @BTS

RM’s debut art exhibition at the @sfmoma! So cool that I got to hear him speak in such an intimate setting. The exhibition is so thoughtfully curated and I love all of the Korean culture and heritage throughout it. 🥺🇰🇷🫰 #rmxsfmoma #bts #rm #kimnamjoon #sanfrancisco @BTS

thank you for coming sincerely um alright Whoo it's been a while that I've made a speech so yeah alright um hello my name is RM um this is my debut as a co creator and I'm nervous haha okay I'm gonna start haha so first of all I'm a very very confused person you could figure it out later and but somehow the more I worked on it the more confused I became like always when I first started going to museums eight years ago when I first started looking at art of course I never imagined that a day like this would come over the years I've talked a lot about things like the personal and the universal East West modern contemporary but now that this exhibition is actually about to open I suddenly find myself thinking well does any of that really matter maybe it just needs to be a good new and an interesting submission two years ago I was in the military I first got a serious proposal from SFMOMA and I loved it um of course since I wasn't in the military at that time maybe I would have been happy with any kind of proposal coming from San Francisco yeah but I also thought it could be a good experience before I someday open a kind of space I dream of and I also thought at a place with this kind of scale and stature maybe I could borrow someone else's spaces and try something um fun so I started this with an innocent heart I just didn't know that this innocence would eventually make me write erase rewrite hundreds of labels and labels as I'm standing here talking to you I still feel like I'm I'm always drifting and floating somewhere whether I'm in the U s um even when I'm or even when I'm in Seoul where I was born and raised and you know it's not a very pleasant feeling um so I think I've leaned on art a lot because of that feeling art and music their language um and medium might be slightly different but they are the same um because they both try to say something and also I liked collecting things ever since I was young and at the same time I do feel guilty about it like do I really need to carry like so many unnecessary things that I don't even need have I ended up becoming just a boring rich snore well maybe okay but I thought it would be nice if other people could see those as well and that's why I wanted uh to show the people my collection and a lot of works in my collection are by Korean modern and contemporary artists and I'm sure many of those names are still very unfamiliar outside of Korea over the past few years I've seen a lot of other people's collections and I came to think that there aren't many things that show a person like more honestly than a collection they've built over like a long period of time spending their money their life their effort and even giving the walls of their own home and in that term I guess this exhibition is a pretty long introduction of myself and I feel embarrassed kind of ha ha but the thing is um sometimes I don't really know why I collected all these things so I just name one of the sections I don't know what I like it that's my honest feeling and um likewise I always feel my own limits sometimes I feel incredibly proud of myself then incredibly embarrassed by myself back and forth in the end I realised I can't really be anything more than just myself so there were two questions that mattered most to me um one was does it move me really and another was right now in 2026 does this artist and does this work still have something to tell us in an age where everything is consumed so fast I believe uh the attitudes of the some of the past artists can resonate even more deeply today and I've always dreamed of seeing um different places times boundaries and backgrounds all mixed together in harmony uh it could be a mess because I never uh I never formally studied art history and I'm not a curator curator but in any field sometimes an outsider can bring in a new breeze new breeze so since I'm not from the art world um I guess I'm a little free and I wasn't very trained but I wasn't very trained at making a single label fit into 100 words that was your hardest part yeah I try to enjoy it um over the past century Korea went through colonization war and an incredibly um fast development a lot disappeared during that time but at the same time some remarkable and shiny things were also created as a young man from Korea I've collected with the hope um that I could add a slightly newer um younger maybe better perspective and sensibility and eventually that LED me to this exhibition from selecting the works placing and even framing I tried to bring together everything I had liked and everything I had wished could have been better I tried I just tried to make this exhibition as interesting and as new as I possibly could I hope you can feel it uh I like to thank everyone at SFMOMA for giving me this honorable opportunity helping me out through the through like almost two years especially America Castillo the co creator who first came up with this amazing idea Hyun Kim uh co creator who introduced Korean art to so many people in San Francisco and Chang Hong Han who handled the overall communication both inside and outside this was basically a collaboration with me and SFMOMA so I couldn't realize every single thing that I dreamed of so there were lots of fun ideas that we buried in our graveyard well honestly if I had realized everything that I dreamed of I'm sure that we might have been in trouble so I think that's the beauty of this collaboration and it makes me very happy that one person um not from the art world can make it this far please enjoy and thank you very much for coming big shout out to San Francisco uh sorry uh huh um I told um so this is the introduction of me so I hope people could get to know me because I feel like this is pretty much myself and I hope the people just could figure out like how much it's it's fun and joyful to you know go see a a an exhibition like that's all yeah why San Francisco I think that's not a question because San Francisco is is one of the coolest city in the world thank you

I was taking a selfie when I heard RM on the radio while I was en route to the @sfmoma for his debut exhibition as an art curator! 🥹🇰🇷 #rmsfmoma #rm #bts #kimnamjoon #btsarmy @BTS

So this is the introduction of me, so I hope people could get to know me, because I feel like this is pretty much myself. And I hope the people just could figure out, like, how much it's. It's fun and joyful to, you know, go see a, uh. And it's a mission. Like, that's all. Hello, my name is RM. Um, this is my debut as a co creator, and I'm nervous. Haha. Okay, I'm gonna start. Haha.

You heard the man! 김남준 Kim Nam-Joon/ RM said San Francisco is one of the coolest cities in the world!!! 😤😌🙂‍↕️ @sfmoma @RM #rm #rmxsfmoma #namjoon #btsarmy #bts

Why San Francisco? I think that's not a question. Because San Francisco is. Is one of the coolest city in the world. Thank you.

One of our favorite omakase spots in San Francisco 🍣 (but this isn’t our top pick 🤭👀) #omakase #sanfrancisco #sffoodie #sfblogger #sfrestaurants

Who else saw the moon tonight!? It looked like the moon in Shrek 🥹 so big, bright, and yellow! (Apparently not a full moon though—Waning Gibbous phase with about 99% illumination) #moon #astronomy #fullmoon #sanfrancisco #autumn

Wow, the moon looks so big right now. It's so bright in person. It's showing up grey on my phone, but it's so bright and yellow right now.

My first unboxing as a wifey!!! 💍🧡 just some gifts from ✨me to me✨ for surviving wedding planning hehe (this is so Capricorn-coded of me) #hermes #luxuryunboxing #handbagtiktok #birkin #birkin30

My first unboxing as a wife, and naturally, it's from Hermès, so let's do a haul! Let's start off with the cutest and tiniest box of this haul. I got a silver scarf ring to match my necklace. Another cutesy little box. I love the colour and design of it. This side has the print in this beautiful dark navy. This side has a greyish blue background. It’s lined with this really pretty maroon leather. Box number 3 It is a black cashmere scarf. I can't wait to wear it with an all black outfit. Obviously with my box leather kelly but it's giving wifey. Now for the grand finale. You know, just a little something from me to me for getting through wedding planning, working multiple jobs, being a full-time dog mom, as well as the first-born eldest daughter to immigrant parents, if you know, you know. Birkin 30 in etoupe, Togo calfskin leather with Palladium hardware. I am so excited about this. I've already started joking that this is going to be my future diaper bag. Aah! My husband just walked in. My husband! Oh, my god! What? Ha ha ha! What? You sound so weird. I fear I'm about to be very annoying with this bag, and I've unlocked a whole new personality, so prepare to be sick of me.

Finally checking out @Plock Swedish Candy —the newest Swedish candy shop in San Francisco! 🍬🍭 should I do a taste test!? @Louise Norman #sanfrancisco #swedishcandy #sfblogger #sffoodie #sfbayarea

Come with me to San Francisco's newest candy shop. Plock is located in Cow Hollow, and it has the cutest storefront and branding. Unlike other candy shops in San Francisco, Plock also has buck. It's to fill up with candy. We've definitely had an influx of candy shops popping up in San Francisco, but it's unique that this one only offers Swedish candy. The shop has an amazing selection of sour gummies, so I will definitely be back.

Happy Chuseok (추석)!!! Let’s do a rice cake (떡) mukbang 😋 Traditionally, Koreans eat songpyeon 송편 but I was craving 떡 in general so this made me so happy 🥹 Chuseok is a major harvest festival. Songpyeon is made using newly harvested grains (hetgokshik), such as freshly milled rice, beans, chestnuts, or sesame seeds, as a way to thank ancestors and nature for a bountiful year. #mukbang #koreanricecake #떡 #추석 #koreanfood

Peachuhawk my only sent over some talk, so let's do a taste test. On the topic of Korean food, I would just like to clarify that it is not muk peng. It's muk pang. Same goes for Kangnam, not Gangnam. Okay. Haha. Oh, no. Let me try it. Mmm. It's good. Haha. It doesn't have no flavor. It's just a very subtle flavor. Mmm. Mmm. It's so sweet. Kurtok directly translated to honey rice cake. This is so nostalgic for me because I used to eat this a lot as a kid, and then when it goes a little stale, my mom would, like, pan fry it so the outside would be crispy. I don't actually think the different colors taste any differently. Mm. Want some? Very subtly sweet, but so yummy. Sweet and sour. Oh, okay. Yeah. Less chewing. Anyways, happy chuseok, everybody.

First manicure with @quinnliangnail2.0 as a wifeeee 💅✨💍 she is the best nail artist in the San Francisco Bay Area!!! She specializes in Japanese hard gel and my nails always look perfect — dm her on IG to book an appointment! #sfnails #bayareanailtech #bayareanails #sanfrancisco #bridalnails

The lemon meringue tart dessert from our wedding was PHENOMENAL and it still tasted so good at the airport lounge on our way home 🍋🤤 (I loved it more than our wedding cake lol is that controversial???) #rhode #weddingcake #husbandwife #weddingtiktok #weddingplanning @rhode skin

Name a better combo 🦪🍟🍾 such a fun evening at the Beacon Grand Hotel in San Francisco 🥂 Learned how to shuck oysters with @Hog Island Oyster Co.! #sanfrancisco #oysters #girldinner #sfblogger #sfbayarea

Yes, I’m a Capricorn 😘😇 #capricorn #bridalhair #diorbeautylovers #diorbeauty @Diorbeauty #bridalmakeup

This feeling for the rest of our lives 🤍 #husbandwife #marriedlife #weddingday #brideandgroom #relationshipadvice

Some people are just like human medicine. One hour with them and everything feels better.

No, I’m not pregnant, but that doesn’t mean I can’t start researching my future baby/diaper bag 🤭 obviously, had to check out Bottega for their selection #bottegaveneta #bagcollection #diaperbag #luxurybag #luxuryshopping

Because she's brought a ludicrously capacious bag. What? What's even in there, huh? Flat shoes for the subway? Her lunch pail? I mean, Greg, it's monstrous. It's gargantuan. You could take it camping. You could slide it across the floor after a bank job.

Loveeerr caviar 🥂 @TheCaviarCo. #caviar #girldinner #dinnerparty #sanfranciscofood #bayareafoodies

Cause it's iconic, and I love to do iconic shit.

Just married 💍🥂🍾 #husbandwife #weddingday #weddingtiktok #customweddingdress #bridaltiktok