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De ce creierul tău vede apropierea emoțională ca pe un pericol?

why do you feel uncomfortable when your own first parents try to hug you or when I tell you i love you and something inside you is just freezing if this sounds familiar to you doesn't mean you're cold doesn't mean you're 1 ungrateful psychology says it could be something deeper it's called avoidant attachment 1 pattern your brain didn't choose but taught it by those as a child when emotional closeness wasn't perceived CA being safe or constant maybe the condition wasn't shown often maybe emotions were being ignored or maybe you had to grow up too fast so your brain has adapted quietly But strong learned 1 rule court feels safer than vulnerability and now when someone shows you love even your own parents your body is not relaxing it's getting tense he's retiring not because you don't want love but because your mind is trying to protect you psychology explains that avoidant attachment isn't about rejecting people but about surviving without depending on anyone so if hugs feel uncomfortable or 1 love you feels hard there's nothing wrong with you your not spoiled you just adjusted to something that at 1 point AI needed to survive here's the strongest part though once you understand this pattern you can change it little by little you can teach your brain that now the connection is safe share this with someone who she didn't understand never why love feels uncomfortable

Cel mai rapid mod de a sparge ego-ul unei fete care te ignoră!

what AI says if you say that the most quick way to break a girl's ego after he ignores you or rejects you Would be to 1 follow more or to 1 make EA follow you here's pure dark psychology no angry messages no fake stories without checking her profile silence is your Weapon any reaction just feed her pride and it just makes you look more desperate even more thirsty for her attention you want proof he's still following you touch distribute to any rel see the direct messages on Instagram if her name gets on that list does EA follow you But you never no 1 follow stay away from her inbox that trigger breaks the ego CA the bottle if you know you know unless comment the red shirt method and someone WILL explain step 3 never send 1 double message if you write 2 Times EA knows she's controlling you But what if you shut up you sow doubt you become unpredictable that's what destroys his ego on the inside if you liked this video send them to your friend the one everyone keeps ghostuing LIKE it's not like that anymore 1 attention beggar

​Psihologia despărțirii: De ce timpul trece complet diferit pentru el și ea... #pshycology #fyp

after break up both are suffering But they don't feel the same EA feels everything at once he doesn't feel anything at first EA cry he stay quiet psychology says women release pain through emotion men 1 suppress by silence EA wants answers he wants space EA relives memories he avoids them EA feels abandoned he feels cocky at night she lacks connection his night finds the peace EA was giving him EA wonders what went wrong he wonders if that was enough time pass differently for both of us EA heals feeling he heals understanding after that's why a few months after the breakup EA feels lighter and that's why still a few months he finally feels the pain breakups don't miss the same honestly miss if it resonated with you comment it's true also send them to your special person too subscribe to the channel and give it like

Atașamentul evitant: De ce corpul tău respinge afecțiunea celor dragi...

according to psychology people who feel weird or uncomfortable when their parents try to hug them or tell them they love shows signs of an adaptation style called avoidant attachment that hair usually starts in childhood that doesn't mean love was missing they usually knew their parents were caring for them but the condition was shown less and words of love were rarely spoken grow up in that kind of silence learn to see closeness CA on something weird or even cocky neurologically avoidant attachment involves the prefrontal cortex that helps control emotions and 1 less reactive amygdala what's the one who perceives closeness and emotional settlements this makes CA affection look uncomfortable the brain also uses oxytocin link hormone with less power so the feelings of security and love in hugs can I be harder to live kids with avoidant attachment learn to ignore their own needs they get used to taking care of themselves instead of asking for relief to adulthood that can manifest in many ways compliments and gifts may seem weird hugs can be tense and even soft words can cause discomfort i can give love easy But it's hard for them to receive 1 with not feeling anxious in everyday life avoidant attachment appears in petty actions to laugh when someone is kind to change the subject when emotions become deep or to retreat into yourself that doesn't mean it doesn't cherish love 1 do What about their experiences early taught them to see love everywhere less to them greys the good news is that understanding avoidant attachment is the first step towards change with practice adults can learn to feel safe with closeness to enjoy affection and to build deeper relationships with no fear if you liked it this content and do you want to see more give 1 like follow account

​Un bărbat care te iubește cu adevărat se va teme mereu că îl înșeli!

1 man who loves you 1 always think you're unfaithful look why when 1 man loves deeply 1 woman becomes aware of how much he could lose men know how other men think he was a man too he knows how men approach women he knows that attention validation and proximity can slowly transform slowly in temptation that's not imagination it's lived experience he knows we humans aren't perfect 1 man in love doesn't believe in fairy tales he knows people have impulses weaknesses and moments of vulnerability so he notices patterns not promises the more 1 man emotionally invests financial and spiritual the more he protects what he built 1 man who loves you always imposes limits because he knows that infidelity is possible he makes rules standards and limits but 1 man Who doesn't care doesn't impose limits he is silent stay distant because losing yourself wouldn't hurt him 1 man who loves you has something to lose and when something matters you protect him not in fear not by force but by conscience if that made sense to you comment

Ce gândește câinele tău în ultimele sale clipe? Psihologia din spatele privirii lui...

when your dog knows his time has come according to psychology looks at you one last time no because he is afraid but because he wants to memorize your face the face of the person who was his whole world psychology explains that dogs aren't afraid of death same way LIKE people they don't think they are dying but rather hope your okay without them as his heart slows down his attention is not directed to himself but stay on you in your eyes wait for 1 smile any little sign that you're safe because in his mind the mission of SA was never to live forever but to love you and make sure you will be okay once he WILL be gone when her breathing eases and her body relaxes finally thats not pain e release his brain floods with oxytocin same feeling that 1 had every time you got home so when she finally closes her eyes he's not saying goodbye but thanks you for choosing him and for giving her 1 love filled life and according to psychology dogs never leave altogether their flavor their heat their rhythm they stay engraved in your brain forever that's why sometimes late at night you still feel him squatting next to you because your mind remember what your heart can't let go

De ce un bărbat devine rece și tăcut după o simplă glumă? Psihologia din spate: #pshycology #fyp

when 1 man goes silent after you tell him it's annoying psychology says that usually it's not because he got mad it's because when a man is told he's annoying that kills the part of it who was just trying to have fun so at that moment the energy he was putting on 1 goes off everything and instead of being playful and on shotty before he's starting to retire and get more reserved most people think they overreact or that he's sensitive But they don't realize that he was comfortable and express 1 side of him that doesn't come out with anyone so when this gets repressed his mood change insta and start thinking she can do too much so temper it gets quieter more indifferent and more closed in it no because he doesn't care but because he doesn't want to be considered annoying out of 9 and in time even when he wants to be himself since 9 it just doesn't work out for him anymore because now he's more aware of how it's perceived to him the behavior that's what makes him start acting more no matter with you so next time don't repress that side of him just trying to have fun if that made sense comment correct

​De ce prima dezamăgire în dragoste îți schimbă complet creierul?

in your first love just feel in 2nd you choose first time falling in love you don't really understand what love is you just get attached every message seems important every call feels special slow to change your routine just LIKE making time for a person and slowly you slowly lose parts of yourself without even realizing it then one day finish and your not just losing the person you lose your habits your daily routine and version that was happy with EA this is why the first disappointment in love hits you so loud after that time passes you think too much you reflect slowly to notice your mistakes and theirs too and slowly you learn you realize that love alone is not enough YOU NEED RESPECT effort consistency then someone 9 shows up in your life But this time you are different stop hanging on like that fast do you notice if something doesn't feel right stop ignoring you put limits and most importantly stop losing yourself your first amor teach you to feel the 2nd one teaches you to choose right

Plângi când te cerți cu cineva? Iată adevărul biologic din spatele lacrimilor! #pshycology

people who cry during talks or intense moments even when they aren't seriously hurt they aren't overly sensitive this is called emotional hypersensitivity when this happens your brain reacts not just to the situation but at the intensity of emotion almond the part of the brain that detects threats it activates really fast for hypersensitive people it's CA and how the volume of their emotions WOULD have hit harder than normal tears are the way the nervous system releases that cringe activation no they are 1 sign of weakness but 1 biological message that the body is overworked and here comes the surprising part those who have emotional hypersensitivity usually have 1 deeper empathy perceiving shades that others don't notice tone of voice facial microexpressions and small environmental bars But because your brain process all this information in a way so intense talks or emotional conflicts they feel stronger and more oppressive crying is simply 1 exhaust valve the way the nervous system self-regulates

De ce corpul tău plânge atunci când vrei de fapt să țipi? Explicat științific..

why do some people's eyes cry when they are angry anger or annoyance is not always manifest by screaming or aggression in many appears CA 1 strong physical reaction in the body when anger rises the nervous system enters a state of alert heart rate is quickening breath changes muscles tense up and emotions rush at once this intensity can activate the tear glands making eyes cry even if the person is not sad or feeling emotionally vulnerable for some anger is closely related to feelings such as pain the frustration or feeling that they are not being listened to when these emotions get intertwined the body releases tension through tears CA 1 form to manage the situation e 1 auto reaction it's not something done on purpose and it is not 1 sign of weakness or lack of emotional control usually eyes that cry when you're nervous shows that the emotion is too intense CA you can hold it back body just tryna adjust releasing the pressure in the most quick way he knows

​Ai învățat supraviețuirea, nu pacea. Cum îți afectează trecutul relațiile de acum! #fyp #pshycology

according to psychology one of the most damaging patterns in childhood is to grow up with 1 absent father emotional and 1 emotionally unstable mom this combination creates something called disorganized attachment and just with the people who should protect you well exactly of them you end up being afraid As a child, you learn that love is unpredictable one moment it feels warm in the next one you seem to be walking on glass shards your nervous system never learns that p learn survival slow to analyze every tone every silence trying to guess who they are going to be today you are believing that love must be won that being quiet means being invisible so you make yourself small just CA keep ipacea But here's the painful truth you did not become distant because you wanted to but because love seemed too dangerous psychologists say that people raised like this i often confuse chaos with connection oof this peaceful relationships can seem weird or even wrong your brain doesn't trust calm healing starts when no more you run for the love that hurts and slowly take care of that part of you who just wanted to feel safe follow me CA get along better and share this video to 3 friends

Cum poate o femeie să distrugă spiritul unui bărbat puternic! #fyp #pshycology

biggest fall of a man is not to run out of money but to choose 1 woman turning her house into a battlefield don't skip the solution comes at the end 1 man can rebuild his fortune he can rebuild his career But once that one disappears his whole life is falling apart with EA 1 woman who thinks she's always right kills them leadership spirit man loses confidence when he has to justify home existence disrespect destroys 1 man slowly on the inside she doesn't need another CA man to betray you her tone is enough her sarcasm attitude I know better full of disrespect starves a man's soul 1 noisy house weakens 1 strong man 1 warrior can fight the world But he wouldn't he has to fight the woman he's coming home to if his home is not 1 sanctuary he has nowhere to recover the right woman multiplies it silence respect trust wisdom and cooperation this partnership turn 1 ordinary man into a dangerous one now you see the difference if that made sense to you comment true

De ce bărbații doriți acasă fac mai mulți bani? 💸 #pshycology #fyp

the deeper the intimacy in a couple the more 1 man gets also having 1 higher financial determination that's not motivational talk but biology psychology and emotional alignment who work together when 1 man feels wanted at home everything changes decrease stress his concentration sharpens energy is increasing discipline gets easier walk for 1 purpose think more clearly work harder not for pleasure but because closeness builds trust 1 man who feels wanted is not lost but build resentments go away communication is getting better motivation no longer requires forced effort because when privacy is ascertained 1 man stop surviving and start to create his work advance faster his finances are stabilizing goals seem easier for him to achieve no because of pressure but from momentum because desire sharpens discipline because trust feeds consciousness because the effort is multiplying when the house feels alive for the home camel become power in the world privacy is not 1 Lux it's fuel fuel on for concentration fuel for discipline fuel for constancy when 1 man feels connected at home stop wasting energy in all the other places his mind calm down his effort multiplies if that makes sense to you comment true

De ce partenerul tău adoarme INSTANT când este cu tine? #pshycology #fyp

why does your partner always fall asleep when he's with you you say Let's watch 1 movie and he accepts without blinking and yet before CA the first scene settles down well his head is already sitting on your shoulder and you slow to wonder if he somehow got bored or it's somewhere far away with the thought But the truth is much more tender because when they enter your space his nervous system instinctively recognizes that CA area being 1st safe switching them from 1 discrete voltage to 1 state of genuine calm his psychological defense is lower and his mind comes out of the daily state of hyper vigilance the pressures they carry and the unspoken worries which one hides under expressions and calm they start melting in the heat of your presence in the smell he associates with comfort and on beat constant of your breath which 1 guides his in perfect synchronous it's not boredom or laziness s his attachment system relaxing his brain switching from survival mode to 1 secure connection 1 transition that just happens next to someone who feels emotionally safe she spends her days keeping on her toes But in your arms she finally lets her thoughts calm down and lets body rest with not having to show his strength so next time he falls asleep next to you no 1 take CA for lack of interest take CA the purest sign of confidence because sleeping next to you doesn't mean it escapes from the moment finally say find 1 moment where all his being feels protected

​Feminitatea vs. Masculinitatea: Cum se completează cele două energii #fyp #pshycology

1 delicate woman can influence 1 man way more than 1 VA ever does 1 rowdy woman not by bullying not by force but by femininity the men don't move the continuous quarrel they are attracted to peace 1 noisy woman competes with the man's energy EA cause blackouts it always escalates and over time that turns the relationship into a fight keep going for power 1 delicate woman does the exact opposite her peace down her guard her tone I invite don't challenge him and her presence makes him feel enough of insecurity so that he can take the lead without resistance that's not weakness at all it's pure strategy men instinctively respond to delicacy because it conveys confidence to him respect emotional safety when 1 man feels respected becomes generous in his efforts when she feels like she's being given confidence become protective when he feels peace gets involved even more deeply this is why femininity is so strong EA doesn't struggle with masculinity from cons 1 fill in if that makes sense to you comment

De ce te întreabă iubitul tău mereu dacă ești supărată pe el? #pshycology #fyp

why you keep asking your boyfriend if you're mad at him you just sitting on your phone lost in thoughts and suddenly she asks you out are you mad at me you look at it and say baths I'm just tired slow to think does she think I'm annoyed with him all the time I do something wrong But you know something it's not that most times it means she really cares how you feel and she is afraid she missed something that hurt you resume old moments in his mind trying to read your tone face the messages maybe she grew up in a scream environment or with treatment by silence so now any peace seems dangerous to her prefers to ask 1 silly question than sit there to guess you are upset and not being able to fix anything that little one are you mad at me it's actually him choosing to fix things instead of protecting their ego so yeah may sound difficult But it's actually him trying to keep things safe between you guys you don't have to think too much 1 simple I'm not just tired it really calms his mind and your boyfriend does that or just mine

​Lucrurile mărunte care distrug încet și sigur încrederea unui bărbat... #pshycology #fyp

what actually hurts 1 man more than cheating on him the scary part e that you might get things done these every day most men pretend they don't care But to themselves going through a whole emotional simulation when something presses you and you don't go at it but you open up in front of another man or even just to a friend feel that his place in your world emotional suddenly shrinks when you save in your phone 1 other guy with 1 special name you think there's nothing But that triggers his instinct for comparison that mental loop where she always wonders why him and not him when you praise 1 other guy in front of him VA pretend calm down But 1 part of he wonders if he doesn't somehow lose his slowly slowly the importance if you still keep stuff from your ex every time he sees them it stirs her insecurity she usually 1 hides to dress super sexy or spend a lot of time individually with other men don't make him want to control you but activates 1 anxiety instinctive related to relationship boundaries deep down not jealous of them but is afraid to lose the emotional position he built himself by your side each of these moments is 1 indicator silent that it affects him more than 1 looks when 1 man really loves you he just wants to be the person you are with feel the safest the one Whose you you confess first time the one you choose deliberately don't wait till his silence se turn into distance LIKE to realize how much do these little details matter love is not just in words but it's in the emotional signals that make him feel seen chosen and irreplaceable

Nervozitatea unui bărbat nu vine din lipsă de iubire, ci din altceva.. #fyp #pshycology

why 1 guy that before was so gentle he starts to lose his temper slowly slowly slowly to ask you if he doesn't somehow love you anymore But the truth is, his nervousness is coming rare from lack of love it comes from not feeling loved back when he was deeply in love practice 1 form of emotional regulation not realizing it ALREADY notice your tone your breaks how does your face change before you say 1 word don't fall asleep until 1 you did and the moment I was frowning on you ask slowly you are tired again at that stage her emotional distance was unbearable But with time something changed he got quieter more irascible no because he cared less but because he began to feel emotional neglect his effort was going unseen his unresponsive care and you AI slowly ceased slow to reply to his little ones to trying to stay connected so he learned 1 form of defensive retreat hiding the babbling behind words like leave it's nothing no one is born choleric 1 short wick is usually built from repeated disappointments little by little his heat is gone no because love is gone but because it wasn't mutuals anymore if he still gets upset still react he's still losing sleep because of you it means emotional attachment still exists the real distance is not the quarrel but emotional closure so as long as they are still expressing something even rage don't let THAT his cuteness become the last time when she tried before

De ce prietenul tău pare uneori mai „gay” decât persoanele gay? 😂 #fyp #pshycology

why your best friend that's heterosexual seems more guy than people guy's no confusion but comfort psychology says that when someone feels fully safe on himself stop flaunting masculinity prove nothing he already knows who's around close friends social pressure decreases so personality manifests to the fullest jokes Become crazy dramatic gestures and playful limits it's not attraction it's freedom knows no one questions it so he exaggerates everything for the sake of fun confidence banishes fear of being judged the more genuine he is with himself on the inside the less she needs to pretend on the outside that flirt jokingly compliment everyone and wear loose insecure people stay stiff people safe on them play what seems guy is actually emotional security mixed with humor don't play 1 role he's relaxed and relaxed people are always noisier funnier and harder to fit into a category this is why heterosexual best friend is always the most at ease in the room

​Trimite acest clip prietenului care își bate joc de tine în fiecare zi! #pshycology #fyp

why the friend that takes you the most to cool e usually the one you like the most it sounds weird in the beginning because they are exactly the ones making fun of you that highlight tho all kinds of stuff and that forgives you nothing But notice when 1 do actually it's never random its always when i know you will react which means they pay more attention to you than most people and here it gets interesting these jokes on someone's account aren't just humor but also 1 form of familiarity you need to know how far you can go what's OK and what exceeds the limit most people don't take this risk unless they feel comfortable with you But look what many escape they watch your reaction more than anyone anyone else almost CA and how AR test the limits without saying it directly and if I ever go too far they are usually first ones to adapt or change their tune and someone who really doesn't like you wouldn't be interested enough to do that with time you'll notice something else too they will subtly defend you not with scandal not on the face But enough to balance the balance because that cool is not LIKE to ground you it's their way of staying connected with don't take herself too seriously and the reason it looks like confusion that on the surface looks CA 1 disrespect But it's actually 1 form of comfort any friend group has someone like this the one that takes you the most to cool But who in a way is always around and if someone instantly came to mind send it- But don't be surprised if he takes you from 9 to cool